Its Time for a New Years revolution!

I totally meant resolution but that is how I used to say it so I like to celebrate my weird wordings sometimes

Just like how I used to say brefast... yeah that's breakfast But that's how it would just roll off my tongue and I miss it sometimes so once in a while I will say it wrong just because I like that word.

Anyway 

new year - new "plan"

My plan for this new year is for me and my lover.

To share the kitchen more with him.

I have to allow him into the kitchen at lest once a week

I know usually goals with the kitchen include something like ( cook more for my lover )

Not me... my problem is that maybe because I am an only child or just trying to be a good lover... 

I don't "share" the kitchen.

Every night I make dinner for Andrew

He asks if I need help and I will quickly say nope!

He had expressed his need to be in the kitchen more.

we used to cook together ( and we do a great job at it! )

but that was at his first house that I didn't feel comfortable using the kitchen without him there because he had roommates and all.

But now that we have had two houses that I have been able to call 'home'

I have taken over that part of the house.

I did it because I Love to cook and to make my lover happy.

I am old school in some ways and I believe that the woman does all the cooking and cleaning.

I also enjoy surprising him when it is time to sit at the dinner table 

and I like to keep it a secret how I make my special food... is that wrong?

So my best Friend... my love... my soul mate has asked for me to "stop being such a perfect housewife and share the kitchen"

I know... this must be every girls dream having the man step in to help

But I feel I wont be doing my "duty"

But 

Andrew made a great point, If we can share a kitchen together like we used to and we are able to get along we would take advantage of it.

He is right, I mean what other couple do you know that can both share the stop top at the same time!

I know... unheard of, but seriously, we do a great job when we do anything together

we make a great team, even when I do let him in the kitchen.

We are such a great team that we don't even need to speak. We just know what each other need and what our roles are in the kitchen.

Such as... I like when he does the meat part... that's "manly"... right?

....SO....

We will be bringing our own ideas into the kitchen this year of 2011

Our first meal to make together is in 10 days when he comes home from deployment.

we will be making .... get ready for this.....

fresh lobster and home made raviolis!

Yes we got a pasta maker for Christmas and we are going to make our own pasta "dough" or whatever it is and use the 3lbs of lobster meat that my mom got from the restaurant.

sounds delish? i know...

Now if only I didn't have to wait till the 12th to start our new goal

This will be us